There are three words that can make a world of difference in the lives of anyone we happen to touch. It's I am sorry. If meant, it can heal a festering wound or prevent one from getting to that point. To say the words is like telling the receiver that you're willing to humble yourself to lift them up.
I'm terrible at nurturing relationships. I have friends that I've had for years and years and I believe they know that I care about them deeply, but it certainly isn't because I make a point of calling or visiting on a regular basis. If you care about someone and you have somehow wronged them by either action or sometimes inaction, it's so important to let them know that you regret how they've been hurt.
I remember as a child that phrase was rarely if ever used by my mother to me. As a child we weren't worthy of an apology, it was just something that was taken for granted and you never have to explain yourself or your actions to a child. How wrong she was. One of the most healing moments I've ever experienced was having the opportunity to say I am sorry to my children. Of course they are so forgiving. I truly believe children have the heart of God and know how to love others. It's kind of like dogs. They just forgive and love you regardless of what selfish thing you've done that might have hurt them. Dogs keep that, but children grow up.
As your children become adults, I believe it's still important to humble yourself for their benefit. But not just our children, but our families in general, our friends, people you meet in the store....basically anyone you have wronged. Never be afraid to say you're sorry. The words are healing to both the giver and the receiver. If I get a chance later, I'll talk about this more. For now, be good to each other and yourself. Patty
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